BE LIKE JESUS
How Jesus Served: And How You Can Too
He came not to be served but to serve. That sentence reorganizes everything about what greatness is and what it's for.
The Son of Man came to serve
Matthew 20:28 — "The Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many." This is Jesus's own statement of purpose. Not to receive service. To give it. The most powerful person who ever lived defined His entire mission as service to others.
This sentence reorganizes the world's idea of greatness. In the world's system, greatness means being served — having status, having staff, having people whose job it is to make your life easier. In the kingdom, greatness means serving — giving your time, your resources, your attention, your energy for the benefit of others. The greatest person in the room is the one most committed to the flourishing of everyone else in it.
Jesus modeled this without exception. He healed on the Sabbath, which was legally controversial and personally risky, because people needed healing. He fed thousands when He wanted to grieve. He washed feet the night before His arrest. He stopped for individuals in crowds. He blessed children one by one when He was tired. His service was not occasional and programmatic — it was the constant, default expression of love for neighbor in every situation He encountered.
The night He washed feet
The foot-washing is one of the most important scenes in the entire New Testament for understanding service. It is not just a touching gesture — it is a deliberate, theologically loaded act that redefines what it means to be great.
The context: it is the night before the crucifixion. The disciples had spent the day in Jerusalem — likely with dirty feet from the dusty roads. The custom was for a servant to wash guests' feet upon arrival, but there was no servant present. None of the disciples had offered. It is possible they were still in the middle of the argument Luke 22:24 describes — which of them was the greatest.
Jesus rose from supper, wrapped a towel around His waist, and washed each of their feet. John specifies that He knew "the Father had given all things into his hands." He was not confused about His status. He served from the highest possible position of security and authority, not from ignorance of it.
Then He made the instruction explicit: "For I have given you an example, that ye should do as I have done to you." (John 13:15) The foot-washing is not a story about one extraordinary night — it is a model for every ordinary day. You are not above the work that needs doing. Do what needs doing.
"Knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands — from that position — He wrapped a towel around His waist and knelt down."
Healing on the Sabbath — people over rules
Jesus healed on the Sabbath at least seven times in the Gospels, knowing each time that it would generate conflict. These healings were not accidental or careless — they were deliberate choices to serve the person in front of Him even when doing so violated a religious convention. The pattern is worth examining.
The Pharisees watched Him, "that they might accuse him." A man with a withered hand was present. Jesus asked them: "Is it lawful to do good on the sabbath days, or to do evil? to save life, or to kill?" They remained silent. He healed the man. Their response was to go out and plan how to destroy Him. His response to knowing they were watching was to heal the man anyway. The need was present. The capacity was present. The religious convention was not a sufficient reason to withhold the help.
A woman had been bent double for eighteen years. Jesus was teaching in a synagogue on the Sabbath. He called to her, laid hands on her, and she stood upright. The synagogue ruler was indignant. Jesus's response: "Thou hypocrite, doth not each one of you on the sabbath loose his ox or his ass from the stall, and lead him away to watering? And ought not this woman, being a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan hath bound, lo, these eighteen years, be loosed from this bond on the sabbath day?" He identified her as a daughter of Abraham — a person, with dignity and worth — not a problem to be managed after the Sabbath ended.
A man had been waiting at the healing pool for thirty-eight years. Jesus asked him: "Wilt thou be made whole?" The man explained why he had been unable to get into the pool in time — no one helped him. Jesus said: "Rise, take up thy bed, and walk." On the Sabbath. The man had been waiting thirty-eight years. The Sabbath was not going to extend that wait by one more day. The law was made for people. The person was there. Jesus served him.
Serving one by one
3 Nephi 17 contains one of the most intimate service scenes in all of scripture. Jesus was preparing to leave. He told the multitude He needed to go to the Father. Then He looked at their faces and could not leave. He asked them to bring their sick. They brought them. "And he did heal them every one as they were brought forth unto him." (3 Nephi 17:9)
Every one. Two thousand five hundred people at the gathering, by some estimates. He healed every sick person among them — individually. Then He asked that the children be brought. And He "took their little children, one by one, and blessed them, and prayed unto the Father for them." (3 Nephi 17:21) One by one. Not a general blessing over the crowd. Not a collective prayer. Each child, individually, received His specific attention and blessing.
This is the pattern of His service. Not programs. Not efficient distribution of benefit to the largest number. Personal, specific, individual service — the one in front of Him receiving His full attention, not a portion of it divided among many. This is what it means to serve as He served: seeing the person, not the crowd.
The Book of Mormon on service
"And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God." (Mosiah 2:17) King Benjamin said this while himself serving his people with his own hands — he built a tower because the crowd was too large, and he worked to prevent being a financial burden on those he governed. His teaching is the practical articulation of the two commandments: service to people is not a separate category from service to God. It is the same thing, pointed in two directions.
The implications are significant. You do not have to choose between loving God and loving people. Every time you genuinely serve a person — every conversation you stay in, every need you notice and act on, every time you show up for someone — you are simultaneously serving God. The two commandments are one act.
Ammon was the son of a king. When he arrived in the land of Ishmael to preach, he chose to become a servant to the Lamanite king Lamoni. He served for three days before Lamoni asked what he wanted. He asked only to live among Lamoni's people. He was assigned to protect the king's flocks. When other Lamanites scattered the flocks at the watering place, Ammon drove them off singlehandedly. Lamoni's servants reported that Ammon had powers beyond human capacity. Lamoni sent for him.
The conversation that followed led to Lamoni's conversion, his household's conversion, and eventually a major turning of Lamanite communities toward the gospel. Ammon's mission began not with preaching but with service — three days as a servant before any theology was discussed. His service earned the relationship that made the teaching possible. "For when Ammon saw the joy of the queen, and also Lamoni and his queen, he was so overcome with joy that he fell to the earth. Now was not this exceeding great? Behold, this is joy which none receiveth save it be the truly penitent and humble seeker of happiness." (Alma 27:17)
Practical service for modern life
Service does not require a formal program or a scheduled volunteer slot. Most of it happens in the ordinary margins of your day. Here is what it looks like at different scales.
The School Play
A retired teacher in her late sixties started showing up at the public library two afternoons a week to tutor at-risk kids who had been referred by a social worker she knew. She had not been asked by a program or recruited by an organization. She had noticed a need, she had the time, and she had spent thirty years teaching reading. She showed up.
The first few weeks were unremarkable. Most of the kids were polite but disengaged. One boy — eleven years old, two grades behind in reading, wearing the same hoodie every time she saw him — made it clear he was there because he had to be, not because he wanted to be. He rolled his eyes when she explained what they would work on. He answered questions with the minimum syllables required. She kept showing up anyway.
There were no dramatic breakthroughs. His reading improved slowly. She learned that he liked basketball and his grandmother's cooking. He learned that she had once cried reading a book to her third-grade class, which he found genuinely baffling and then genuinely interesting. The relationship built the way most real ones do — in small, unremarkable increments.
Three months in, he handed her a folded piece of paper with his name at the top and a date and a time written on it. "That's my school play," he said, looking at his shoes. "You don't have to come." She came. She sat in the third row. He saw her from the stage and looked surprised and then not surprised. She applauded until her hands hurt. Mosiah 2:17 says service to people is service to God. The school play was not on any volunteer log. No one measured it. That was exactly the point.
Try This Before Sunday
Do one act of service this week that no one will know about. Not something you'll post about. Not something you'll mention. Anonymous, invisible, done purely because someone needed it — pay for a stranger's coffee, leave something useful on a neighbor's doorstep, do the task at work that no one wants credit for. Notice how it feels different when there's no audience.
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Questions about service
What does the Bible say about serving others?
Matthew 20:26-28 — "whosoever will be great among you, let him be your minister." Mark 9:35 — "if any man desire to be first, the same shall be last of all, and servant of all." Galatians 5:13 — "by love serve one another." 1 Peter 4:10 — "as every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another." Matthew 25:40 — "Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me." Service in Scripture is not optional charity — it is the primary expression of the second commandment and one of the defining marks of the kingdom of God.
Why did Jesus heal on the Sabbath?
Because the law was made for people, not people for the law. When religious convention and human need were in direct conflict, Jesus chose the human need — while making a deliberate theological statement: "Is it lawful to do good on the sabbath days, or to do evil? to save life, or to kill?" The Sabbath was designed to honor God and protect people. Using it to justify withholding help from people in need was a perversion of its purpose. He healed on the Sabbath to show what true honor of God looks like: caring for the people He made.
What does Mosiah 2:17 mean?
"When ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God." King Benjamin taught this while personally serving his people. It means that loving God and serving people are not two separate activities — they are the same activity pointed in two directions. Every genuine act of service to a person is simultaneously an act of worship of God. The two commandments are one love.
How do I avoid burnout in serving others?
Jesus served from a full tank — He regularly withdrew to pray, to be alone, to replenish from His relationship with the Father. Luke 5:16 — "And he withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed." Service that is not replenished by prayer and Sabbath rest eventually becomes resentment. You cannot give what you do not have. The pattern is: withdraw to be with God, return to serve people. Not as a management strategy but as the natural rhythm of a life that has a source to draw from.
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